First impressions count. It's an unfortunate fact of human psychology that we all begin to define a person right from the very first view. Future impressions will almost always be filtered through that very first impression. That's why when it comes to seducing women, you have to make a great first impression. Here's how.
1. Method to the Madness
"The Method" refers to an acting style preferred by most of the legendary actors of our time -- Brando, DeNiro, Pacino, pretty much anyone famous enough to discard his first name, and many more besides. The basic theory is that the best way to play a role is to be it. Start to think like your character and you'll begin to move, to carry yourself, to truly behave as that character. It's not enough simply to play the part, they have to be the part.
Which brings us around to our first bit of advice. When a woman looks at you, you want her to see a man she'd like to know better. Which means you want to be that man, as much as you can be. Think about your personal strengths, the things a woman might value. And that doesn't mean a well-endowed package or mad skills in the bedroom. (Your goal here is that she'll learn the truth about these soon enough, right?
Don't make promises you can't keep!)
But think about those real, honest-to-goodness qualities you have that make you desirable to a woman. Something that sets you apart from all the other guys out there. Be the best that you can be, and be proud of it, and you'll start to look more desirable.
2. Act Out the Part
Still nervous? A little uncertain? Lingering insecurities? That's entirely natural. So a little bit of playacting can help in this case. Stand up straight; don't slouch. Keep your head high. And make your movements slow and deliberate, not erratic. Think about any move before you make it. Maintain eye contact. Smile. These simple tricks will make you appear more confident, but as you keep at it they'll make you feel more confident too.
3. Be Well Groomed
It probably goes without saying, but slobs don't make good first impressions. Wash and comb your hair. Shave. Use a dab of aftershave or cologne, but only a dab. Go easy on the scent, and use deodorant. Either way, if she smells you before she sees you that's a bad first impression.
4. Dress Up
You don't have to put on a suit and tie, but make sure you're wearing nice clothes. And notice, "nice" doesn't always mean "comfortable". Take a look around at what the women are wearing. Does it look comfortable? In many cases, probably not. As a rule, women care more about fashion than they do about comfort. They apply that as much to us as to themselves. And to be fair, we probably do the same back at them -- would you give a woman a second look if she had on sweats and a tee-shirt? Look at the women you notice the most, and consider what they're wearing. Now try to match that level of stylish discomfort. In men's fashion, of course.
5. Shoes
Have at least one nice pair of shoes. No, I don't get it either. But women love shoes. Many women say their very first impressions of a man are based mainly on his shoes. Everything we've said above about clothing goes double for shoes. Seriously, most women have managed to convince themselves that they like balancing on those high heels. When it comes to sacrificing comfort for style, we men have nothing to top that. So don't even try. Just put on some nice shoes.
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