How to Approach a Girl You Like

Do you want to know how to approach a girl you like without being paralyzed with fear? For the inexperienced, this can be a daunting feat but when you understand the basics, it becomes easier soon thereafter. These tactics I am about to share with you have their underpinnings on the psychology of women.

How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #1: Establish Social Value

Contrary to popular belief, you don't directly approach a girl you like and introduce yourself just like that. You must first create massive amounts of attraction and the only way to do this is for you to display your personality, charisma and social skills in general. Simply put, you have to display certain traits that women find attractive. You can do this by simply making sure that you group is enjoying your presence; talking to bartenders and waitresses you know; saying hi and striking a conversation with friends and random people alike.

How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #2: Don't Sound and Appear Too Interested

If you think that by being that nice guy and showering a girl with too much attention, you're turning her on, you've been misinformed. Here's a question for you, why do players get to sleep with the hot girls in the bar? I'm not saying that you have to a jerk. What's I'm saying is you give her an impression that you're just saying hi and maybe you can talk, but if she's doesn't want to, you don't really mind. If you've displayed your social value well, she would know that even she doesn't talk to you, it's not your loss. There are a lot of other girls who would be more than willing to give you their attention. In the process, you become the prize.

One way of doing this is by stating beforehand that you're not going to take too much of her time. Here's a good example:

"Hey, I know you're having fun with your friends so I don't want to take too much of your time. I saw you from across the room and I think you look awesome in that dress. I just thought I'd drop by and say hi."

She would either smile or thank you for the compliment, either way stay true to your words and leave.

How to Approach a Girl You Like Tip #3: The Neutral and Flirt Openers

Neutral openers are the opposite of flirt openers. It requires you to observe the girl you want to approach and formulate a question, comment or compliment based on that observation.

Neutral openers give you the chance to show the girl that you don't only appreciate her but you are also interested in what she has to say about certain things. The goal is to say something that interests her and make her talk to you. Women like it when they meet a guy who doesn't see them as someone he can have a one night stand with. Although this may be your goal but the point is, you don't make it obvious. Otherwise, you'll be rejected right off the bat. Call it ritual if you want, but women warm up to these tactics and these are your tickets to her bed or her heart, for the romantics.

Flirt openers on the other hand should only be used once you've mastered the skill of conversing with women. Make sure you're confident with your game and you're fast enough to follow flirt openers with topics that would surely catch her interest. Flirt openers also work if you're 100% sure that she's into you. When you know how to approach a girl you like using flirt openers, you've reached that macking rock star status.