Do You Think Affection Can Be Artificially Increased?

We are all people and people are emotional creatures, aren't we? After all, when we check things out we always consult our emotional feeling about them. Do I like it? Do I detest it? And the same about people: do I feel affectionate toward him? Do I feel attracted to her? And so on... These are all emotional questions.

But when you meet a new guy or a girl whom we really like, do you sometimes want him or her to start feeling good about you? Or even start to get attracted to you? What if you could impact that feeling in another person as you wished? What having this ability would give you in life, think about it!

In this post I want to show how relationship compatibility can be improved by influencing affection in your partner to the better.

You could create good relationships at work, having boss like you and your colleagues want to spend time with you, talk to you and invite you to parties. Sounds good? Then you could choose the partner of your choice and by your own volition create warm, warmer, hot relationship together.

So how one does it? What's the secret?

Well, to fully understand what I'll be talking about, I strongly advise you to check out these two free online courses: The Emotional Tone Scale and and The Components of Understanding. They give the full details on how emotional side of a person really works and how you can affect it.

So to give you the shortcut, the first part of the secret is:

Talk and mostly listen to the person with warm feeling of interest toward what he or she has to say.

But remember that only sincere emotion is successfully transferred to another person. Any and all artificiality is caught  right away and felt bad about. So you must train yourself to cultivate the warm feeling of liking another person and to always check yourself if you indeed feel it or not really.

And the second one:

Always try to show agreement with what the other person tells you.

And the last one:

Expressed words of admiration about anything related to what is being said.

For example, a girl tells you about the new haircut she did and you say - "wow, nice haircut, you have good taste". If said sincerely with the right amount of internal feeling of warm liking - the other person would appreciate it and would develop greater and greater liking and affection towards you.